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11Dec
DAILY PLANNER 12.10.2019
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DAILY PLANNER — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/11/daily-planner-12-10-2019/

TRANSCRIPT:

“Oh, there you go. All right. Um, first time. Streaming and got that. So awesome. So yeah, just every morning I do my daily planner and I want to share that with you guys, to inspire you guys to do the same thing, because the first thing you do in the morning is the most important. So I usually meditate, do yoga, stretch my body out.

What else? Workout just a little bit. Nothing crazy and Oh, obviously, you know, wash up and all that. Um, make sure I feel confident when I’m walking out the door and everything. I take care of my health like first thing in the morning, my mental, my monster routine. That’s like the most important thing in this, which I’m about to share with you now.

So. Every damages go that bright in the morning. And I’m sure with you guys. So first thing I usually do is set intent for the day. Like what am I going to accomplish today? So as there are 600, which is about right now, um, I need to meditate. I need to. Roll out my body with a pure wave and stretch.

Um, so what’s that behind you? Yeah, that’s my alarm to start. So it was at a hundred needs to do my mighty manifestation cause something my coach taught me pretty much. Right? My money goes like a thousand times. If you see me in person or like you see, I have a book with me. It’s a money manifestation book, and I write the same thing like a thousand times every day.

I don’t make it to a thousand because I’m always busy. I’m always busy. But, um, I do about 300 a day on a good day, so I got to start that as zero 700. So 800 I got to finish some questions at work and finish up some training. Um, 6,000 I got a bar. I’m going to start this. I started this thing called, I’m buying into the morning where I just do some pushups, kinda just pay the world’s for waking me up again.

Like it’s kind of an appreciation thing, but I do pushups to celebrate and do some classes, celebrate. So I want to do that in the afternoon by paying into the afternoon as well. As soon as I get home from work to think I wanted to do a 1.5 mile run, um, with my new weight vest, 40 pounds, that’s gonna fucking, it’s going to be something.

Yeah. Um, so I was going to be buying and staffs and know, and I got to that six 1600. 1700. I got to do something. I call it deep breaths, and I definitely want to teach that to my Facebook group. It’s something I created, um, from the inspired from the chain. And I went through, uh, recently or past four months.

Um, so when I got home about zero 700, I want to cleanse my environment. So it’s going to be playing of vibration, music, lighting, and candor. Like I always have live and the toxin from other people’s frequencies throughout the day because you’re affected by everybody all the time whenever you’re around somebody.

So I definitely want that. Make it a point to cleanse myself when I stepped into my house, cleanse my body, and in suddenly annexed and suddenly in terms of that, my spirit externally, Chevron, usually I just take it at night, but you see it as something and they tell them, I’ll wash it up. I want my skin to dry out.

Um. At 20 a hundred I want to do breath work and 2100 I want to reflect in my nighttime reflection. What have I been slipping off? Just reflect what has worked throughout the day. Like I’m telling you what I’m going to do for the day, but at the end of the day, I need to know what works, what doesn’t work, so I don’t keep doing what worse.

I keep doing more of what works and don’t do like doesn’t work. Right? So things that I want to accomplish today. Um, so I want to start my unit method and my Facebook group, and I think it’s going to provide a lot of different values to different guys. It’s going to be kind of like mini courses that I set up through my Facebook group, and I can simply just, um, it’s going to be like a video.

It’s going to have, um, PDF PDFs built into it. Um. Pretty much how to instruction videos on like every single chapter of authentic CHOGM that I am, my method for, my life business relationships that I created. So that’s gone create like crazy value. Um, doing my lot of video, which is you don’t right now.

Easy, easy money. I’m finishing my new master routine. I got new Masa routine, um, for 2020 that I’m going to use to like the story 2020, like I’m prepared for it right now. Like, you’re going to see, like I’ve probably seen inconsistent in my posts, but it was, I just like tests like 20, 20, Oh, 2020.

It’s going to be fucking, I’m going to be a problem. Definitely my energy about the fucking wow. Um. So why do I have to conduct these things? So while I got to do my first live video, which I’m doing now, because I’m going to start doing it daily, um, I’m a inspirational energy. Like, and I want to be that in every, every facet of my life.

So why not share the positive things that I do in the morning to keep me motivated and keep my energy? I simple. Um. Why do I need to start the unit method and the Facebook group? Because I want to start helping them out in different ways and in more ways and be more positive. And how is it bringing me closer and moving my business forward is because I’m going to be come closer and closer and closer.

The more execute on positive things and inspirational things, I’m going to be closer and closer to being a cleaner. In my field, which is a introvert coaching niche. I want to be a cleaner. I want to be the top person in the niche, and it’s definitely going to happen because I’m the perfect person to do it.

Um, it’s about eight minutes. I feel like that’s good enough for today. I got a lot more, I could talk for like an hour about what I’m about to do today, but, um. That’s it for now. So about the finish on my daily routine. Get to work on time and do my thing today. I hope you guys have a great day too.”

Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/11/daily-planner-12-10-2019/

Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/11/daily-planner-12-10-2019/

If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!

To Your Success!

Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/

C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!

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10Dec
The Authentic Charm Awaking Guide LAUNCH!
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The Authentic Charm Awaking Guide LAUNCH! — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/10/the-authentic-charm-awaking-guide-launch/

TRANSCRIPT:

“What is going on?! Members of the authentic charm method Facebook group, guys, do I have something for you? Guys, I am launching finally. I know you guys were waiting for it! I’m launching the Authentic Charm Awakening Guide tomorrow.

To get it free, take these simple steps. First, watch the video to just comment down below. Tell me something about yourself, and you can either comment with a GIF or you can just type the word charm in the comments and I’ll send it right over to you guys. This the first step to really awakening to a completely different person.

Promise you guys. If you buy into the program, get with the program, and buy into the mini-courses that I’m developing. You guys will be a different person in 2020 and you guys will fall in love with yourselves. So, comment down below and type ‘charm’ guys!”

Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/10/the-authentic-charm-awaking-guide-launch/

Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/10/the-authentic-charm-awaking-guide-launch/

If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!

To Your Success!

Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/

C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!

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09Dec
How to Transform without Feeling Awkward!
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How to Transform without Feeling Awkward! — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/family-workout/

TRANSCRIPT:

“When you beat your procrastination for change, your amount of wins will increase more and more and more.

When I learned how to upgrade my character and fully embody the characters of a person who can achieve the goals I set forth for the year, I started feeling unstoppable. The more and more I apply this the more I feel like a steam roller for ANY obstacle in my life.

I used to be very monotone not ONLY in my personality but my voice sometimes still my voice. Now my personality is dynamic forever changing. I don’t see myself as a static individual. I’m a waveform of light that is peaceful AND ferocious, respectful AND nasty, quiet AND expressive

How did it happen??

Which barber should I pick?! How do I tell them if I don’t like the style? What do I do if I don’t like the haircut?! Do I have to talk to the barber while I’m in the chair?! Where do I look when I’m getting a haircut and the barber turns me directly toward someone waiting?! Do I avert my eyes nervously or do I try to look comfortable and stare right there fucking face?

When I ran out of money starting my first business I was discouraged… my passion was multimedia producing and editing videos and visual design. I spent hours a day breaking down movies and dissecting them. I’m honestly surprised I don’t need glasses or my eyes are dried out. So when I realized I NEEDED a job again and I ran out of resources, mentally spiritually. Everyday I was thinking

Damn I gotta go back to this 9-5, how am I gonna start over?? how am I gonna pay off this school debt?? also I was a bit worried… will I ever be able to come back from this how long will it take??!

And to top it all off I resigned from my last jobs and was dismissed from college so I knew I wasn’t going back to either of them and I just had to figure it out ASAP… can’t be living at my house with my mom and doing nothing.

But I knew I wasn’t giving up. Never do. Never did. Never will. Took me a few months and investing into a coach to understand that until I changed who Dakotah Rogers was, even if I knew the right action to take I wouldn’t be able to if I wasn’t the type of person that believed from the bottom of their heart that certain beliefs that are true. For example, I deserve to earn $100k per year in revenue.

Authenticity was key for me in making these changes and today I’ve learned and accepted things that the old me didn’t have the mental capacity to think about and I’m (as cocky or weird as it may sound) am in love with myself. The new me. And I’ll keep falling in love with myself as I upgrade myself and my character. The key is to fall in love with yourself every day as you go through micro changes. You’re always authentic. You’re always you.

I got LOVE for me baby!

Learning to master the art of authenticity is a gift I love sharing with my clients.

And I’m super stoked for what lies ahead…

What’s your story with transitioning into a different character?

If you’re not feeling authentic while you go through transitions in life, what’s holding you back?

Drop a comment down below”

Today’s video is the first of a new weekly blog series. I plan to release new videos weekly that topics from inspiration, personal stories, success, instructional videos, overcoming fears, and living with passion.”

Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/skip-hairday/

HERE’S WHAT WE COVER:

  • Postponing Transformation
  • Falling in LOVE with you every day
  • Dynamic Personality

Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/skip-hairday/

If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!

To Your Success!

Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/

C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!

If you enjoyed this video, subscribe to our channel and get the valuable content on overcoming fear and living with passion delivered straight to your inbox at dakotahrogers.com

And if you’re interested in more videos on overcoming social anxiety and unleashing your authentic charm check out our YouTube playlist on those exact topics here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4oudJmZ6fCgggYko8XXRz6Qfhy7zOOOv Thanks for watching!

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05Dec
Is your Introverted Side Making your Skip Hair Appointments?!
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What to do When you Want to Inspire Your Family to Work Out! — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/family-workout/

TRANSCRIPT:

“It’s crazy how decisions followed by action can transform you over time.

My discovery of Authentic Charm completely changed my life.

I went from never getting haircuts in high schools (probably about once a month), rocking a wild goatee with an afro and letting my hair do whatever it wants, looking WILD constantly, to investing in myself to make sure my hair is neatly braided, eyebrows trimmed, beard under an inch long, neatest taper as possible, and my hair being healthy to the touch with daily hair routine, investing in the best creams I can find no matter the cost to keep it healthy, moisturized, soft and pleasant to touch, AND always finding the barber with the best talent in whichever city I am and paying not what it costs, but exactly the service they provide. What happened??

As an introvert, when I thought about going to the barber with other people in there and having to interact with others and communicate how many people before it’s my turn took so much energy. I avoided it as much as possible.

Which barber should I pick?! How do I tell them if I don’t like the style? What do I do if I don’t like the haircut?! Do I have to talk to the barber while I’m in the chair?! Where do I look when I’m getting a haircut and the barber turns me directly toward someone waiting?! Do I avert my eyes nervously or do I try to look comfortable and stare right there fucking face?

And to top it all off, I didn’t have a car at a time so I had to walk! too much work, all more the reason to skip some weeks.

But I knew I wanted to look good and continue to be more and more attractive for myself and feel GOOD and FRESH and I had a gut feeling I wanted to change this. 5 years later, my mission is to have the softest most pleasant to play hair in the world, keep all my hair neat as possible, eyebrows, tight brads, smooth baby hairs, chest hair, beard, taper, etc.

Developing the Authentic Charm Method and wanting to upgrade my charm physically, mentally, and spiritually in as many ways as possible allowed me to have the courage to get not only a haircut but go the extra mile getting my hairline right, getting my eyebrows down, AND the braiding shop to make sure those things are tight by the right women and I could have never imagined me having to confidence to boldly walk in a hair salon for such an originally introverted guy like myself.

I got:

  • LOVE for all my hair
  • Confidence to constantly to do it takes to maintain it no matter who I have to interact with
  • Excitement to seek out the best barbers in the city and in the shop and talk about the specific style I want
  • and much more…

Learning to develop my Authentic Charm to and naturally connect with women as myself made a huge difference for me.

And I am excited for what lies ahead…

What is your story with developing your charm?

If you aren’t using your authentic charm in your dating life, what is keeping you back”

Today’s video is the first of a new weekly blog series. I plan to release new videos weekly that topics from inspiration, personal stories, success, instructional videos, overcoming fears, and living with passion.”

Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/skip-hairday/

HERE’S WHAT WE COVER:

  • Self LOVE and care
  • Loving being high-maintenance
  • Setting bolder standards for your looks

Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/skip-hairday/

If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!

To Your Success!

Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/

C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!

If you enjoyed this video, subscribe to our channel and get the valuable content on overcoming fear and living with passion delivered straight to your inbox at dakotahrogers.com

And if you’re interested in more videos on overcoming social anxiety and unleashing your authentic charm check out our YouTube playlist on those exact topics here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4oudJmZ6fCgggYko8XXRz6Qfhy7zOOOv Thanks for watching!

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05Dec
What to do When you Want to Inspire Your Family to Work Out!
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What to do When you Want to Inspire Your Family to Work Out! — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/family-workout/

TRANSCRIPT:

“Wanna quick shout out to my mom!! Yesterday I asked her when’s the last time she got on the bike in her room and she had a bunch of clothes on it so I know it’s been a while. She said 3 months.

After asking that innocent question, I asked about how long do you usually do it for. She said 5 minutes. ‘Oh, that’s pretty easy’. She agreed and nodded her head in approval! Boom, she’s already selling herself lol.

So she started telling me she’s about to go to the doctor and they’ll probably ask the same thing. I let her finish and said well why don’t you just knock out 2.5 minutes and guess what??!! She did 3 while talking to me. I told her afterward, ‘See that was easy!! and I know it was because your not out of breath and you were talking with me the whole time!’ Boom. The sale was complete.

And I also had her roll out her muscles with a massage roller afterward and said she was feeling brand new! I’m proud as hell. Middle of the week win for the family.

Today’s video is the first of a new weekly blog series. I plan to release new videos weekly that topics from inspiration, personal stories, success, instructional videos, overcoming fears, and living with passion.”

Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/family-workout/

HERE’S WHAT WE COVER:

  • Inspiring others
  • Motivating through LOVE
  • Encouragement through admiration

Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/family-workout/

If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!

To Your Success!

Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/

C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!

If you enjoyed this video, subscribe to our channel and get the valuable content on overcoming fear and living with passion delivered straight to your inbox at dakotahrogers.com

And if you’re interested in more videos on overcoming social anxiety and unleashing your authentic charm check out our YouTube playlist on those exact topics here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4oudJmZ6fCgggYko8XXRz6Qfhy7zOOOv Thanks for watching!

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05Dec
Just to Let Y’all Know…! Pt. 2
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Just to Let Y’all Know…! — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/04/just-to-let-2/

ABOUT THIS VIDEO: Just to Let Y’all Know… A couple that works out together…

Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/04/just-to-let-2/

If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!

To Your Success!

Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/

C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!

If you enjoyed this video, subscribe to our channel and get the valuable content on overcoming fear and living with passion delivered straight to your inbox at dakotahrogers.com

And if you’re interested in more videos on overcoming social anxiety and unleashing your authentic charm check out our YouTube playlist on those exact topics here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4oudJmZ6fCgggYko8XXRz6Qfhy7zOOOv Thanks for watching!

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05Dec
Just to Let Y’all Know…!
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Just to Let Y’all Know…! — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/04/just-to-let/

ABOUT THIS VIDEO: Just to Let Y’all Know… A couple that works out together…

Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/04/just-to-let/

If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!

To Your Success!

Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/

C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!

If you enjoyed this video, subscribe to our channel and get the valuable content on overcoming fear and living with passion delivered straight to your inbox at dakotahrogers.com

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04Dec
Viorel Smeu: Pressing Snooze vs. Having Your Passion Wake You (Inside The Authentic Charm Method!)
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Viorel Smeu: Pressing Snooze vs. Having Your Passion Wake You (Inside The Authentic Charm Method!) — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/04/viorel-smeu/

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:

Meet my friend Viorel Smeu who did a quick 20 min chat with me. He was struggling with being able to wake up to his passion. I gave him some tools to use to awaken the vitality of his soul and now he’s practically waking up his alarm now!

Congratulations Viorel and keep up the great work my man!

We simply did a quick 20 min chat. Imagine what would happen if he were to enroll in the Authentic Charm Method Program…

Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/04/viorel-smeu/

Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/04/viorel-smeu/

To Your Success!

Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/

C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!

If you enjoyed this video, subscribe to our channel and get the valuable content on attracting women naturally with authentic charm delivered straight to your inbox at dakotahrogers.com

And if you’re interested in more videos on overcoming social anxiety and unleashing your authentic charm check out our YouTube playlist on those exact topics here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4oudJmZ6fCgggYko8XXRz6Qfhy7zOOOv Thanks for watching!

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02Jul
What Does my Daily Routine Consist of?
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What does my daily routine consist of? Without my routine I am nothing. I’m sure your life has a routine that’s not decided by you if it isn’t written down. You may be just living day to day. And I’m sure you’ve heard the quote if you don’t have a plan for yourself you become part of someone else’s. Let break it down.

If in the morning on the weekend you do not have to get up for work and then you get a notification to a YouTube video or something from your favorite artist you HAVE to watch it. Then YouTube added this “nice” feature where not only do they have suggested videos, but it can automatically play the next suggested video. And oh damn that thumbnail looks so enticing in the 7 seconds they give you if you don’t click it first they click it for you and your sucked into another video and not only are you now sucked into another 3 or 10 minutes it’s building your a habit in the mind cause you watched the 2nd video why not watch the next and that thought becomes stronger and stronger until an hour passes, 2 hours pass, 3, 4 and then you may switch into another distraction. Well, that’s how life works when you don’t have a plan for yourself, you’re at the mercy of others plans. So to make sure my actions are aligned with making my own plans happening by doing my own damn routine. Not my jobs routine YouTube’s routine, facebooks, instagram or porn hubs routine but my own routine. So here’s my routine.

I’m up at 1040am …………… and then I’m sleeping at 340am sleep for 7 hours and I’m back up at it again. I don’t remember ever having a bad day when I completed my routine and it’s all at the same time every day including the weekends. And the reason why is everything on my routine was systematically being me close to my major definite purpose and dream life. A minute not wasted. It is hard to be upset about anything when you’ve done this the correct way. I always feel my inner locus of control is wide enough to cover the rain forest because of how much attention I pay to make sure everything I do is geared toward a better me. Do the same for yourself.

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25Jun
The Stupidity of Copying Others
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The stupidity of copying others. I know there’s a Time as a nice guy where you seem to be looking at other guys and comparing yourself because you don’t think your good enough and aren’t man enough to go ahead and ask for you want or maybe your just not getting what you want and there’s this other guy, maybe an “alpha male” who seems to be getting the attention from women you crave maybe from your girl or a girl your tunnel vision focused on. You may be thinking hey maybe if I act more like him I can get the things that I want in life too. That thinking is wrong. There is no way or let me say it’s highly unlikely that by imitating somebody that has what you want whether it be attention form women, a big bank account, confidence, a girlfriend unless you know exactly what the thing your copying or imitating is the thing that directly correlated to getting what you wanted in the first place and even then it’s still unlikely because they may have a different past or certain attributes that make it work that you may not see.

For example, you can get in hot water by just thinking you can get the same thing by imitating other dudes or alpha males for instance. Let’s say Jerry (bad name doesn’t matter) goes around and when he talks to the women you happen you have a crush on he always puts his arm on her shoulder to greet her from behind and she turns around with a ridiculous amount of feminine energy and hugs him. You think oh if I just touch women confidently she’ll respond that way. You try it and she gives you the weirded out look. Now, what happened here? That’s his sisters best friend or they’ve known each before they started working here or they hang out outside of work. It can literally be anything but the point is you’ll never know and what’s crazier is they might not even know.

From the point of view using the scientific method, you cannot know what works to get a specific desired result unless you test one variable at a time. For example, they’re a stain you use cleaning product one it doesn’t come out then you attempt cleaning product 1 2 and 3 it does. How in the hell are you supposed to know which product did the job or maybe it was a combination unless you test one variable at a time? Now I’m sure this guy hasn’t been seeing what he’s doing whether it be the cologne his girl gave him for his bday the new shoes he bought or just the fact he’s working out more so he’s more comfortable with people. And if this what’s even crazier if even if you asked this guy and he says it’s one thing there’s no actual possible way to know that for sure … unless you test it for your damn self.

So if you’re going to copy someone don’t just blindly follow what they say as fact, test it one variable at a time and get closer and closer to where you want to be. And if your a nice guy who wants to accelerate that process and overcome your fear and live with more passion send me a direct message through FB or email me and let’s have a chat or schedule a free strategy session.

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