“What is going on?! Members of the authentic charm method Facebook group, guys, do I have something for you? Guys, I am launching finally. I know you guys were waiting for it! I’m launching the Authentic Charm Awakening Guide tomorrow.
To get it free, take these simple steps. First, watch the video to just comment down below. Tell me something about yourself, and you can either comment with a GIF or you can just type the word charm in the comments and I’ll send it right over to you guys. This the first step to really awakening to a completely different person.
Promise you guys. If you buy into the program, get with the program, and buy into the mini-courses that I’m developing. You guys will be a different person in 2020 and you guys will fall in love with yourselves. So, comment down below and type ‘charm’ guys!”
Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/10/the-authentic-charm-awaking-guide-launch/
Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/10/the-authentic-charm-awaking-guide-launch/
If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!
To Your Success!
Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/
C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!
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“When you beat your procrastination for change, your amount of wins will increase more and more and more.
When I learned how to upgrade my character and fully embody the characters of a person who can achieve the goals I set forth for the year, I started feeling unstoppable. The more and more I apply this the more I feel like a steam roller for ANY obstacle in my life.
I used to be very monotone not ONLY in my personality but my voice sometimes still my voice. Now my personality is dynamic forever changing. I don’t see myself as a static individual. I’m a waveform of light that is peaceful AND ferocious, respectful AND nasty, quiet AND expressive
How did it happen??
Which barber should I pick?! How do I tell them if I don’t like the style? What do I do if I don’t like the haircut?! Do I have to talk to the barber while I’m in the chair?! Where do I look when I’m getting a haircut and the barber turns me directly toward someone waiting?! Do I avert my eyes nervously or do I try to look comfortable and stare right there fucking face?
When I ran out of money starting my first business I was discouraged… my passion was multimedia producing and editing videos and visual design. I spent hours a day breaking down movies and dissecting them. I’m honestly surprised I don’t need glasses or my eyes are dried out. So when I realized I NEEDED a job again and I ran out of resources, mentally spiritually. Everyday I was thinking
Damn I gotta go back to this 9-5, how am I gonna start over?? how am I gonna pay off this school debt?? also I was a bit worried… will I ever be able to come back from this how long will it take??!
And to top it all off I resigned from my last jobs and was dismissed from college so I knew I wasn’t going back to either of them and I just had to figure it out ASAP… can’t be living at my house with my mom and doing nothing.
But I knew I wasn’t giving up. Never do. Never did. Never will. Took me a few months and investing into a coach to understand that until I changed who Dakotah Rogers was, even if I knew the right action to take I wouldn’t be able to if I wasn’t the type of person that believed from the bottom of their heart that certain beliefs that are true. For example, I deserve to earn $100k per year in revenue.
Authenticity was key for me in making these changes and today I’ve learned and accepted things that the old me didn’t have the mental capacity to think about and I’m (as cocky or weird as it may sound) am in love with myself. The new me. And I’ll keep falling in love with myself as I upgrade myself and my character. The key is to fall in love with yourself every day as you go through micro changes. You’re always authentic. You’re always you.
I got LOVE for me baby!
Learning to master the art of authenticity is a gift I love sharing with my clients.
And I’m super stoked for what lies ahead…
What’s your story with transitioning into a different character?
If you’re not feeling authentic while you go through transitions in life, what’s holding you back?
Drop a comment down below”
Today’s video is the first of a new weekly blog series. I plan to release new videos weekly that topics from inspiration, personal stories, success, instructional videos, overcoming fears, and living with passion.”
Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/skip-hairday/
If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!
To Your Success!
Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/
C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!
If you enjoyed this video, subscribe to our channel and get the valuable content on overcoming fear and living with passion delivered straight to your inbox at dakotahrogers.com
And if you’re interested in more videos on overcoming social anxiety and unleashing your authentic charm check out our YouTube playlist on those exact topics here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4oudJmZ6fCgggYko8XXRz6Qfhy7zOOOv Thanks for watching!
What to do When you Want to Inspire Your Family to Work Out! — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/family-workout/
TRANSCRIPT:
“It’s crazy how decisions followed by action can transform you over time.
My discovery of Authentic Charm completely changed my life.
I went from never getting haircuts in high schools (probably about once a month), rocking a wild goatee with an afro and letting my hair do whatever it wants, looking WILD constantly, to investing in myself to make sure my hair is neatly braided, eyebrows trimmed, beard under an inch long, neatest taper as possible, and my hair being healthy to the touch with daily hair routine, investing in the best creams I can find no matter the cost to keep it healthy, moisturized, soft and pleasant to touch, AND always finding the barber with the best talent in whichever city I am and paying not what it costs, but exactly the service they provide. What happened??
As an introvert, when I thought about going to the barber with other people in there and having to interact with others and communicate how many people before it’s my turn took so much energy. I avoided it as much as possible.
Which barber should I pick?! How do I tell them if I don’t like the style? What do I do if I don’t like the haircut?! Do I have to talk to the barber while I’m in the chair?! Where do I look when I’m getting a haircut and the barber turns me directly toward someone waiting?! Do I avert my eyes nervously or do I try to look comfortable and stare right there fucking face?
And to top it all off, I didn’t have a car at a time so I had to walk! too much work, all more the reason to skip some weeks.
But I knew I wanted to look good and continue to be more and more attractive for myself and feel GOOD and FRESH and I had a gut feeling I wanted to change this. 5 years later, my mission is to have the softest most pleasant to play hair in the world, keep all my hair neat as possible, eyebrows, tight brads, smooth baby hairs, chest hair, beard, taper, etc.
Developing the Authentic Charm Method and wanting to upgrade my charm physically, mentally, and spiritually in as many ways as possible allowed me to have the courage to get not only a haircut but go the extra mile getting my hairline right, getting my eyebrows down, AND the braiding shop to make sure those things are tight by the right women and I could have never imagined me having to confidence to boldly walk in a hair salon for such an originally introverted guy like myself.
I got:
LOVE for all my hair
Confidence to constantly to do it takes to maintain it no matter who I have to interact with
Excitement to seek out the best barbers in the city and in the shop and talk about the specific style I want
and much more…
Learning to develop my Authentic Charm to and naturally connect with women as myself made a huge difference for me.
And I am excited for what lies ahead…
What is your story with developing your charm?
If you aren’t using your authentic charm in your dating life, what is keeping you back”
Today’s video is the first of a new weekly blog series. I plan to release new videos weekly that topics from inspiration, personal stories, success, instructional videos, overcoming fears, and living with passion.”
Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/skip-hairday/
HERE’S WHAT WE COVER:
Self LOVE and care
Loving being high-maintenance
Setting bolder standards for your looks
Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/skip-hairday/
If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!
To Your Success!
Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/
C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!
If you enjoyed this video, subscribe to our channel and get the valuable content on overcoming fear and living with passion delivered straight to your inbox at dakotahrogers.com
And if you’re interested in more videos on overcoming social anxiety and unleashing your authentic charm check out our YouTube playlist on those exact topics here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4oudJmZ6fCgggYko8XXRz6Qfhy7zOOOv Thanks for watching!
What to do When you Want to Inspire Your Family to Work Out! — https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/family-workout/
TRANSCRIPT:
“Wanna quick shout out to my mom!! Yesterday I asked her when’s the last time she got on the bike in her room and she had a bunch of clothes on it so I know it’s been a while. She said 3 months.
After asking that innocent question, I asked about how long do you usually do it for. She said 5 minutes. ‘Oh, that’s pretty easy’. She agreed and nodded her head in approval! Boom, she’s already selling herself lol.
So she started telling me she’s about to go to the doctor and they’ll probably ask the same thing. I let her finish and said well why don’t you just knock out 2.5 minutes and guess what??!! She did 3 while talking to me. I told her afterward, ‘See that was easy!! and I know it was because your not out of breath and you were talking with me the whole time!’ Boom. The sale was complete.
And I also had her roll out her muscles with a massage roller afterward and said she was feeling brand new! I’m proud as hell. Middle of the week win for the family.
Today’s video is the first of a new weekly blog series. I plan to release new videos weekly that topics from inspiration, personal stories, success, instructional videos, overcoming fears, and living with passion.”
Here’s the link to the full video: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/family-workout/
HERE’S WHAT WE COVER:
Inspiring others
Motivating through LOVE
Encouragement through admiration
Here’s the link to the full blog post: https://www.dakotahrogers.com/2019/12/05/family-workout/
If you’d like the FREE AUTHENTIC CHARM METHOD GUIDE today, type the word CHARM below in the comments!
To Your Success!
Dakotah Rogers & the team at https://www.dakotahrogers.com/
C’mon over to https://www.dakotahrogers.com/blog/ we answer your follow-up questions after the episode and provide the full mp3 as well as the transcript AND FREE TOOLS!
If you enjoyed this video, subscribe to our channel and get the valuable content on overcoming fear and living with passion delivered straight to your inbox at dakotahrogers.com
And if you’re interested in more videos on overcoming social anxiety and unleashing your authentic charm check out our YouTube playlist on those exact topics here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4oudJmZ6fCgggYko8XXRz6Qfhy7zOOOv Thanks for watching!
What does my daily routine consist of? Without my routine I am nothing. I’m sure your life has a routine that’s not decided by you if it isn’t written down. You may be just living day to day. And I’m sure you’ve heard the quote if you don’t have a plan for yourself you become part of someone else’s. Let break it down.
If in the morning on the weekend you do not have to get up for work and then you get a notification to a YouTube video or something from your favorite artist you HAVE to watch it. Then YouTube added this “nice” feature where not only do they have suggested videos, but it can automatically play the next suggested video. And oh damn that thumbnail looks so enticing in the 7 seconds they give you if you don’t click it first they click it for you and your sucked into another video and not only are you now sucked into another 3 or 10 minutes it’s building your a habit in the mind cause you watched the 2nd video why not watch the next and that thought becomes stronger and stronger until an hour passes, 2 hours pass, 3, 4 and then you may switch into another distraction. Well, that’s how life works when you don’t have a plan for yourself, you’re at the mercy of others plans. So to make sure my actions are aligned with making my own plans happening by doing my own damn routine. Not my jobs routine YouTube’s routine, facebooks, instagram or porn hubs routine but my own routine. So here’s my routine.
I’m up at 1040am …………… and then I’m sleeping at 340am sleep for 7 hours and I’m back up at it again. I don’t remember ever having a bad day when I completed my routine and it’s all at the same time every day including the weekends. And the reason why is everything on my routine was systematically being me close to my major definite purpose and dream life. A minute not wasted. It is hard to be upset about anything when you’ve done this the correct way. I always feel my inner locus of control is wide enough to cover the rain forest because of how much attention I pay to make sure everything I do is geared toward a better me. Do the same for yourself.
The stupidity of copying others. I know there’s a Time as a nice guy where you seem to be looking at other guys and comparing yourself because you don’t think your good enough and aren’t man enough to go ahead and ask for you want or maybe your just not getting what you want and there’s this other guy, maybe an “alpha male” who seems to be getting the attention from women you crave maybe from your girl or a girl your tunnel vision focused on. You may be thinking hey maybe if I act more like him I can get the things that I want in life too. That thinking is wrong. There is no way or let me say it’s highly unlikely that by imitating somebody that has what you want whether it be attention form women, a big bank account, confidence, a girlfriend unless you know exactly what the thing your copying or imitating is the thing that directly correlated to getting what you wanted in the first place and even then it’s still unlikely because they may have a different past or certain attributes that make it work that you may not see.
For example, you can get in hot water by just thinking you can get the same thing by imitating other dudes or alpha males for instance. Let’s say Jerry (bad name doesn’t matter) goes around and when he talks to the women you happen you have a crush on he always puts his arm on her shoulder to greet her from behind and she turns around with a ridiculous amount of feminine energy and hugs him. You think oh if I just touch women confidently she’ll respond that way. You try it and she gives you the weirded out look. Now, what happened here? That’s his sisters best friend or they’ve known each before they started working here or they hang out outside of work. It can literally be anything but the point is you’ll never know and what’s crazier is they might not even know.
From the point of view using the scientific method, you cannot know what works to get a specific desired result unless you test one variable at a time. For example, they’re a stain you use cleaning product one it doesn’t come out then you attempt cleaning product 1 2 and 3 it does. How in the hell are you supposed to know which product did the job or maybe it was a combination unless you test one variable at a time? Now I’m sure this guy hasn’t been seeing what he’s doing whether it be the cologne his girl gave him for his bday the new shoes he bought or just the fact he’s working out more so he’s more comfortable with people. And if this what’s even crazier if even if you asked this guy and he says it’s one thing there’s no actual possible way to know that for sure … unless you test it for your damn self.
So if you’re going to copy someone don’t just blindly follow what they say as fact, test it one variable at a time and get closer and closer to where you want to be. And if your a nice guy who wants to accelerate that process and overcome your fear and live with more passion send me a direct message through FB or email me and let’s have a chat or schedule a free strategy session.
I remember listening to Scot McKay and he mentioned that if you have your own car and your own place by 21 your ahead of most guys so I went ahead and made it a goal before 21 I’d have both. And I also remember hearing a lot of men mistaking having a car and a crib for value although it does make life a bit easier it does not raise the value in women’s eyes of you specifically it’s just you have valuable toys things rentable value. There’s also plenty of instances around you to make you believe that hey well if I get this then my problem would be solved.
I remember when one of the girls I liked after I had a game would end up riding with some other dude and his mom and I walked home the other way. I offered to walk her instead nice Guy antics but she politely declined because it’s night and it’s cold. Who’d wanna walk opposed to getting a quick warm nice ride? It makes sense to me now but back then it still hurt. Like damn she must like that guy more and not like me enough to not ride with him. They’d come together too. I was actually dating this girl I won’t beat around the bush. But regardless listening to scot I was inspired to set the goal and I did I got my car at 21 and could’ve had my crib by January 1st this year but I then I realized a few things.
As I reached closer to the goal by being the type of person who deserves it, I realized I don’t need the car or the crib and frankly I was unhappy because it wasn’t because a nice car or house would make me happy, I was just thinking this is what successful people have and specifically to be called a real man successfully you need your own place own car not depend on anybody and I realized this come January so instead of rush it I decided to start doing and setting goals and making everything in what would make me happy because success is a byproduct of my own happiness.
Only you can define success for yourself because only you know what you truly want. So, just a few weeks after my birthday nonetheless I still accomplished my goal and it goes to show that if you write down your goal and focus em no matter what if you focus on it and persist and your punching the right buttons it’ll come to pass. I am happy I can say I’m ahead of the game. If you wanna learn to do the same and break out of your nice guy habits and nice guy lifestyle and get the things you truly want in life overcome your fears and live with more passion, either shoot me an email or private message on FB and let’s chat.
So I was walking into one of my old jobs the other day with my family which I never get to do cause the way my schedule is set up and I got out of the car and as soon as I got out the car I immediately saw 3 of the same co-workers that had been there from 5 years ago in the exact same position they were. At that time I was working two jobs and going to school full time while mentoring under my mentor for multimedia production while trying to start my own multimedia business. Crazy time. Something I would never do again.
Anyway, the crazy thing is that they’re in the same spot, same environment, probably the same amount of money, probably miserable because if you don’t get better life just get harder you get more responsibilities and I ain’t see not one person smiling. And just to demonstrate the standards of the job that’s probably gotten worse there was a manager who was sagging dress pants dress shirts untucked collar open and it’s the first time I really saw that. If the manager doesn’t even care how he appears I’m pretty sure they don’t give a damn about the workers under them. So by that time I’ve got dismissed from school cause I dropped all my classes, tried to do the business full time, and had it fail, went into debt cause financial aid did it cover the classes I dropped, worked at Home Depot overnight paid off the debt then got a state job, then got a higher position job where I work now and I’ll give it up when I quit or move on but I still work there so I won’t say. However, with each new job, the environment, the pay, the quality of people coworkers, the level of stress have all been gradually better and will continue to do so because of gradual growth and persistence.
For those of you who are working on yourself, make sure you take a moment to look back at your track record and see if your life has gotten better and upgraded either health-wise career wise personal achievements etc. a lot of people tend to give up and think that changing themselves is not worth it or they get depressed thinking nothing’s changing but they’re not holding their past situation in juxtaposition.
If you’d like to learn to overcome your fear and consistently go for the dream life you deserve with little to no effort while managing your emotions efficiently send me a private message on fb etc.
